When you go on family outings, there’s always an invisible divide, for instance, if dad buys an ice cream and licks some of it, the kids will happily eat it but if you buy the ice cream and lick some of it, the kid will not want that and ask for another.When taking pictures together, notice how you are always on either the left or the right, but never in the middle of that picture.You can suppress it, but it will creep up in some way or another.
Hence, you are not and will never be the love of his life even if he tells you so.
You are a consolation prize, someone they can look at to help them forget their pain of divorce.
The fact is whether you admit it or not, or pretend to be a strong character and say things like “that doesn’t bother me,” or “it’s not like that with us,” the ample truth is you will feel that your relationship with your divorced spouse is not complete.
The first marriage he had was complete and accepted and he really did feel whole and complete. It’s a plaster stuck on his wounded heart that’s providing temporary relief.
If you look at the pictures his ex took with him and the kids, she’s always at the centre.
No matter what you do, you cannot replace that position that their mother and his ex had in his life.
You will never feel the special effect because that honor now goes to the kids.
Regardless of how his marriage ended, she will always be the mother of his children and no matter whether he hates or loves her, she has a permanent place in his heart and you are just hovering around it.
It took me three months to interview about a thousand people who have had relationships with divorced men and their thoughts on this subject.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating