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How would he know for sure you would be on POF to get that message before the date? You could have messages him also to confirm the plans.
I don't go on first dates/ meets without exchanging phone #'s anymore. Somehow in the past I have been lucky enough in a few instances to not exchange #'s and the guy actually did show up as agreed. But lately no, I've started to encounter flakes that if they are not trusting enough to exchange numbers, I won't even bother. And yep, I always do the 1 hour in advance text msg to confirm that we are still on for the meet.
I also agree if I do not hear from someone by the day of the date that it is a no go. Even in those times (sometimes before and directly after work) He would call and say hello. With the advent of technology nowadays, there is no excuse to be completely out of contact for days on end before a date unless...person is just not all that interested in meeting you.
Like you, I've had relationships and dated men who were interested and they will confirm plans. The ones who don't confirm or wait until last minute aren't interested.
I've had guys who set up dates 4-5 days in advance and never confirmed until they said, "I'm here" and they were stood the **** up. You had AGREED to a date, on a certain day, at a certain time. You can not have been too excited about meeting him. If you are in any doubt as to whether a date is still on, it is incumbent upon you to communicate and find out.
With the advent of technology nowadays, there is no excuse to be completely out of contact for days on end before a date unless...person is just not all that interested in meeting you. You can always contact a man to confirm plans as well if this was important to you.
Perhaps some people feel that they didn't need to confirm plans since the plans were set. We'll get to speak in person on the actual date, why would I message you again, unless to say that I'm definitely NOT coming? I always set up dates at least a few days in advance, and that includes exchange numbers (I won't exchange numbers until plans have been set).
While he *could* have confirmed earlier, you are the one in the wrong for not making sure you would remember the date (ie putting it in your diary/phone/calendar). It's difficult to fathom how someone would forget a date completely. So you will be comfortable if your dentist, automobile repair shop, or personal trainer uses that technique?
"Oh, you didn't call to confirm your teeth being cleaned, so we cancelled your scheduled appointment.
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All of them were always very prompt in contact and made it a point to contact me and make me feel appreciated. If I begin to date someone, I don't want someone who is accustomed to dropping of the planet and texting me once or twice a week. You have no idea how often they would communicate with you IF they were dating you. You yourself could have called as well to confirm the date. All of them were always very prompt in contact and made it a point to contact me and make me feel appreciated.
It seems like all of the POF men now only feel the need to contact outside a date to confirm the date and nothing else. You should not be emailing/texting/talking for days before the date. I don't have a constant need for communication but it get a bit fustrating when you end up "dating" someone who can never be bothered to contact you. Right now, you're just a stranger from the internet. Is forgetting about a date, and then cancelling, showing appreciation for said person. I have made plenty of effort with people, unfortunately effort also can backfire and then you get called "pushy". If I know someone I have no problem trusting them to be there and calling them short notice.
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